Hey peeps, how can one deal with insecurities in a relationship

How many times have I heard: “He or she loves me at first….until my intensity drives him or her away.”

Insecurity creates such a disastrous dynamic in a relationship. It gives our power to our partners. It takes the mutuality out of the equation. It makes us overreact and over-need. Insecurity makes us want too much too fast. It gets us in over our heads. It causes us to aim our emotional suction cups at our partners. It makes us feel less about ourselves and our partners feel less about us. Feeling insecure and driving our partners away leads to self-loathing.

What do you think one can do to correct this? Your contribution will go a long way.